14 nasty things people unconsciously do in an indoor-party

 

1) Ignoring the invitation

If there's an RSVP date, respond on time. Most people do not even know what the acronym RSVP means and so hardly book their availability or announce their absence.If the invite stated it admits only one guest, respect that – even if you have kids–don't assume it's okay to bring them to an adults-only affair.

2) Showing up with cold or catarrh

If you are sneezing or visibly sick with cold and catarrh, it is better to stay away because when you start exchanging hugs and kisses or touching food trays, you're putting your friends and family at risk of getting sick during the party.

3) Arriving so early or too late

It's hard to estimate traffic and travel times, but do your best to arrive at the start of the party or soon after, not before or too late after the party has gone farther. Walking in super early can cause your host to feel rushed and coming too late.

4) Bringing something that requires prep

It is not really good showing-up empty-handed, but avoid bringing something that will create more work for your host. If you want to contribute your quota, choose a dish or dessert that's ready to serve, or go with a hostess gift.

5) Roaming through the house

It's impolite to start wandering the premises on your own. If you need a restroom, inquire before traipsing through their home on a mission. And if the host doesn't indicate that the entire home is open, then consider upstairs or downstairs off limits.

6) Keeping the host to yourself

Even if the host is your BFF, resist the urge to cling. Don't monopolize the host's time. If there are a large amount of guests, allow him or her to engage with everyone.

7) Double-dipping, and other rude food habits

Be mindful about table manners, especially for formal affairs. Don't nibble off someone else's plate or graze on the buffet line and be cognizant of the type of party you're attending.

8) Packing extra bag after the party

If your host encourages you to take leftovers home at the end of the evening, by all means, pack up a small sampling. What's not okay? Showing up with your own containers, or taking back what's left of the wine you brought–it happens more often than you'd think! 

9) Fidgeting with your phone all through the party

Compound parties are for mingling and speaking with those you know and new people; texting or answering your cell phone in front of others is rude.

10) Being a critic

Making negative comments about the food, décor, music selection, or other guests is hardly in keeping with the party spirit. If you don't have something nice to say, well, you know the rest…

11) Sitting on your butt the whole night

If you see your host is getting overwhelmed or isn't spending enough time with guests, offer to lend a helping hand, especially if it's a more intimate gathering.

12) Using poor social media judgment

Be conscious about the photos and comments you post on social media about the gathering. You don't want to inadvertently offend the host, or post a photo that is unflattering to another guest.

13) Stirring up political or controversial talk

Especially in our current climate, conversations can quickly escalate and get heated, making for an awkward situation for all. Try to keep house or closed-door party conversations lighthearted and positive.

14) Leaving without saying goodbye

Always greet the host/hostess at the beginning of the event, and say thank you at the end. It's easy to find them, say hello, and express your gratitude for the invitation. When you leave, spend 2-3 minutes to share a sincere thought about how much you enjoyed the cuisine, music, company, or décor.