Tuesday, 9 January 2018

Four Vital Elements in Decision Making


“ … Escape for thy life; look not behind thee, neither stay thou in the plain … haste thee … then the  Lord rained upon Sodom and upon Gomorrah brimstone of fire … but his ( Lot’s)wife looked back from behind him, and she became a pillar of salt.”


i)     Escape for thy life… Be diligent! The work at hand is the one that has to be well done.  Work hard on your plans.  Proverbs 14:23 says, “In all labour there is profit: but the talk of the lips tendeth only to penury.” In addition, Jesus tells us in John 5:17, “My Father worketh hitherto and I work.”  If the Creator and His Prince never stopped working, why must we?  Every decision without diligence and dedication is still a desire.

ii)    Look not behind thee, neither stay thou in the plain … Don’t compromise! Looking backward hinders progress and retards speed.  Compromising might mean settling for less than you deserve.  If you do, nobody will raise your value above what you settled for.

iii)   Haste thee… Be time conscious!  Learn to invest your time rather than spending it.  Set a time limit; regulate your mind and other available resources to conform to the standard set.

iv)   Endure, even when the goals are neither feasible nor visible.  Endurance is the ability to withstand pain and hardship and a catalyst that keeps decisions alive against all odds.

 

Beloved, the distinguishing feature between the ordinary and the extraordinary is the extra time invested, extra work done and extra burden bear.  Shalom!

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It is not because everything goes well with me that makes me write scintillating notes,
It’s not because I never cried that I preach spellbound, heartfelt gospel …
It’s all that God ministered into my heart to share with you and ...
My greatest joy is knowing that someone like you is always there for me as Jesus I can see.


I’m not alone but I’m lonely; 
I live in a glass house; I see many people passing by all the time but nobody seems to notice me … 

I have all it takes to be rich (real riches based on God’s endowment for my life) but I‘m still poor in real sense … 

I cherish giving people lighter and amusing entertainment but all I get in return is condemnation 

I never had any problem of my own (God’s love sustains me) but each time my friends are hurt; my heart is melted … 

Several times, I would want to jump up and scream for joy but deep down in me I can’t do it; 
My heart bleeds profusely and I cry bitterly … 

Many long nights, I won’t sleep but pray until I’ve no more words to utter … 

Some days, I would have to think about friends and family, who never bothered to say hi but blamed me for being unserious … 

Thieves have robbed me … 
Dupers have cheated me … 
Girlfriend jilted me … 
Family members abandoned me 
Friends went AWOL [not for once have they called to ask about me].
I have lost important people in my life to death  ... parents, siblings and friends
I have made losses in business and made terrible decisions that plunged me into debt

Are you feeling the same way?  Share your story with me …
I’ll pray for you but please pray for me also.

MY HANDS ARE WEAK … they need lifting up!  

Shalom!

Monday, 9 January 2017

How To Avoid 2016 Mistakes and Achieve More Goals in 2017



NOT TRUSTING GOD ABSOLUTELY: 
Just like Peter, some were sailing smoothly but the sooner a distraction came, the quicker they turned-off their gazes off Jesus – and they began to sink. 
This year, keep your focus on Jesus’ arms outstretched on the cross saying, ‘I love you this much!’

REFUSAL TO ADMIT LIMITATIONS:
Some people thought they were in charge. They relied on their humanity intellectuality but not in its reality.  And when the reality hit; they reacted angrily and with bitterness. 
This year; avoid ‘Identity Crisis.’  Just be yourself; it is the best to be in life. It kills unnecessary envy and jealousy spirit. 

SETTING GOALS WITHOUT DETERMINING PERSONAL VALUES: 
Men are fond of desiring what to do without considering what to do – and their accomplishments may make rooms for them but their characters mostly disqualify them and your character is the major reason why people will want to be with you or dissociate from you.
This year, work much more on your character. Your gifts may dictate your potentials but your character will determine your legacy.

BEING AFRAID OF GROWTH: 
Most of us won’t let go of our old ways.  Like an old pair of shoes; they are comfortable and familiar. 
This year; break the jinx, let go of certain habits, grow up and practice being like Jesus.

EXCESSIVE REASONING: 
Do you love to control things, having back-up plans in case God doesn’t come through the way you envisage? 
The simplest result is unnecessary anxiety, double-mindedness and agitation. Do you feel as such too?
Henceforth; live by faith and trust God wholly.  Thank God for making every situation either a mountain or a valley; He will not leave your soul to rot in hell.

LOW SELF-ESTEEM: 
Like me, I was moving up the ladder; going extra miles as the Lord instructed but I boxed-up God in a cage.  I forgot He has always been appearing to ordinary people and turning them into extra-ordinary beings.
In 2017, follow God’s leading - however, whenever and whichever until your good becomes better and your better becomes best. 

INABILITY TO EXPRESS UNCERTAINTY WITH CONFIDENCE: 
Some were running their races with other people’s strengths, driving their vehicles with other car’s fuel.  They were either looking at successful people to determine their targets or waiting for people’s judgements or opinions before crossing the mark.
From now on, be transparent; exchange ideas with people of like minds and openly admit your limitations instead of struggling.

POOR MANAGEMENT OF TIME: 
Many of us either spent our time carelessly or allowed other people wasted it in the pretence of humility.
From 2017, adorn time as a valuable asset that must not be wasted.

HARDLY MEASURING SUCCESS: 
Inability or failure to create concrete plans of action had made many lived everyday of the year stuck to a routine.
From 2017, adopt a good coach strategy; rate your success by the scoreboard and not by rulebook.  Pencil-in your plans but write your vision with ink.  Like a good coach, change your plans in order to win glorious goals.

FEAR OF WHAT OTHERS MIGHT SAY: 
Most people are victims of this; it keeps some on the same unrewarding jobs and imprisoned some on avoidable tasks and stupid relationships. That is what I called self-imposed slavery.
From now on, I want you to realise, it doesn’t matter who criticises you if you succeed and it doesn’t matter who condemns me if you fail.  IT IS YOUR LIFE!


Let Us Pray
Lord, I want to be a major source of blessing to people in my life!
Help me to quit being so fixated on myself and to see how I can become a strength and encouragement to others who are around me.
Your Word commands me to be involved in giving daily encouragement. And since I am seriously committed to obeying Your Word, I intend to find a way to encourage someone who needs strength today! I pray this in Jesus' name!

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